仕事, あたまがいいMarch 31, 2008 11:47 pm
when you reprimand, you should never attack a person’s worth or value as a person.  since their OK-ness as a person is not ‘up for grabs’, they don’t feel they have to defend themselves.  you reprimand the behavior only.  thus your feedback and reaction to it is about the specific behavior and not their feelings about themselves as human beings…
 
– 1 minute manager 
仕事, あたまがいい, Other Stuff 11:28 pm
I love to eat.  And I love cream and mushroom soup, fetucci and pasta, and ramen with gyoza.  The problem is I haven’t been to any chef school , thus I don’t know how to make them at all.  Following a cookbook would be nice but it would not be that helpful.  I guess I had to enroll in a culinary school to really learn how to cook.  I guess I don’t have to worry on finding one because there were a lot of culinary schools offering culinary training. Hmmm I’m just wondering how much would it cost me then.
あたまがいいMarch 30, 2008 9:45 am

we may live without poetry, music and art;
we may live without conscience, and live without heart;
we may live without friends;
we may live without books;
but we cannot live without food.

きもち, あたまがいいMarch 29, 2008 2:53 am
if he/she is heartbroken, that’s the right time for you to steal his/her heart…

there is a myth around that says, "You had better not admit that you are vulnerable or lonely, or you will look weak." It also says, "Don’t be honest about how you really feel, or someone will sink the book it." The myth is back to front. Others know when wer are being open and sincere and they love us for it. It is only when we fake it and pretend that we are OK, that we get into trouble.

it is ironic that those of us who re the most desperate for affection, do the most pretending that we don’t need it. when we are really soft and lonely inside, we then have to do an extra good job of letting the world know that everything is fine.

LOVE is not ooey gooey. LOVE is strength and commitment. to love someone can mean telling them what they don’t want to hear.

LOVE is courage, and it takes a lot more courage to say "I’m scared," or " I love you", than it does to clout someone around the ears.

LOVE is respect, for ourselves and others. it is all baout allowing people to be where they are and loving them anyway. the moment we say, you do this and then I will love you, that isn’t love — it is manipulation.

LOVE is about looking for the good in people, and if we can do that, and do it consistently, then our own happiness is guaranteed. As our life is a reflection of ourselves, the more love and beauty that we perceive, the more wer are growing and the more we are becoming, and so for all of us, LOVE IS EVERYTHING.

– from Being Happy of Andrew Matthews

きもちMarch 28, 2008 1:26 pm

even love pass away…. but you can run and chase it back…

仕事, あたまがいいMarch 27, 2008 8:37 am

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きもち, 仕事, あたまがいいMarch 25, 2008 10:32 pm

sometimes you are so engrossed with your daily life activities especially work that you become workaholic.  you need rest.  you should rest.  nature has a rest from time to time.  the soil needs a rest, bears and snakes hibernate; even fish sleep with their eyes open.  now we can learn from this approach.  we need to take time out; to relax, to pamper ourselves, to rest, to review, to ponder, to be.  If you decide that you are indispensable and that you must always have your nose to the grindstone, then you can live your life like that. you will be that way for the rest of eternity. your belief that you can never rest will be your reality until such time as you decide differently.  maybe that time will come when you rest forever.  when we do make rest a part of our lifestyle, like the soil we become so much more productive when we work.  indeed humans are created for enterprise and activity. 

きもち, あたまがいいMarch 24, 2008 12:32 pm

i know that you’re afraid.
you’re afraid of us.
you’re afraid of change.
i don’t know the future.
i didn’t come here to tell you how this is going to END.
i came here to tell you how it is going to BEGIN.
i’m going to hang-up this phone…
and then i’m going to SHOW these people what you don’t want them to SEE.
im going to show them a WORLD without YOU.
a WORLD without rules and controls, without borders or boundaries.
a WORLD where anything is possible.
where we go from there is a choice i leave to YOU.

- neo (Matrix) 

きもち, あたまがいいMarch 23, 2008 11:48 pm
remember Devil’s Advocate? got this from Al Pacino’s speech about GOD… it made me really think of what he says… so here it is…
 
"Let me give you a little inside information about GOD. GOD likes to watch. HE is a prankster. Think about it. HE gives men INSTINCS. HE gives you this extraordinary GIFT and then what does HE do? I swear for HIS own amusement, HIS own private cosmic GAG reel. He sets the RULES and OPPOSITION. Its the goof of all time. LOOK but don’t touch. TOUCH but don’t taste. TASTE don’t swallow. Ha Ha Ha And while your jumping from one foot to the next what is HE doing? HE’s laughing HIS SICK FUCKING ASS OFF! HE’s a tight ASS, HE’s a SADIST, HE’s an ABSENTEE LANDLORD. Worship that? NEVER!"
 
now eat that…
きもちMarch 22, 2008 10:52 am

F*** Google PR!!! how the f*** did they rank my blog?  yesterday, i am still enjoying its PR 3 rank… but when i check my blog today… F****** M***** F***** it’s zerooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

It is so disappointing…. f****** frustrating… like i want to puch their ugly faces and make a hole right through their asses…. S***tttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt